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Doula Chronicles Blog

An Open Letter to Dumb Men

Dear Dummies,

Wtf are you doing?!

Don’t answer that! It’s a dumb answer!


Who are you to police a woman’s body?


I wish someone had policed your mother’s womb or that she’d been kind and swallowed you.

Sadly, I don’t even think that would’ve been enough.

You’ve made it your business to insert yourselves, literally and figuratively, into places and business that are not your concern, where you disturb the natural balance of the environment and disrupt the flow. (Ladies, y’all feel me?)

Back to these dusty ass men.

You’ve pushed yourself to the forefront of a matter you will NEVER understand.

Picture something for me.

Your trash ass son, much like his trash ass daddy, date rapes a peer of his and impregnates her.

You steppin up to be paw paw or nah? Because you, your kind and all y’all ignorant glory created a situation where she has to hold on to this baby.

Not even considering whether or not she cares to put her body through this type of transformation. Whether or not she ever wanted to be a mother. Whether or not she wanted to carry the product of tape.

Oh no, you made sure to make your trash ass son the victim here. The one who got trapped. The one who has so much to lose and so much life ahead of him.

Boy bye!

The problem I have is that you don’t know how to keep your noses and penises out of women’ business. You can’t even find the clit or successfully get a woman to an authentic orgasm and you think it’s okay to mandate that a woman keep a baby?!

Sit with that for a while. I’m done with this.

✌🏾💜

Aeryka

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